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Gracie - Brazilian Jiu Jitsu Bullyproof Program Intro Video

Every month, in the United States, three million children miss school due to fear of bullies. In the Gracie BULLYPROOF® program, our goal is to instill your child with unshakable confidence so they can overcome bullies without violence. Due to the non-violent nature of the techniques, CNNABCNBC, and Oprah have featured the Gracie BULLYPROOF® program as one of the few effective counter-measures to bullying for children under age of 12.

The Gracie BULLYPROOF® program will teach your child to use verbal assertiveness to deter bullies as well as non-violent self-defense techniques to stay safe if physically assaulted. Importantly, we don’t teach how to punch or kick, since this often does more harm than good. Instead, we use leverage-based control holds to neutralize threats without violence. Numerous school districts have embraced the defensive nature of the Gracie BULLYPROOF® techniques as a reasonable, nonviolent response to bullying and some even host Gracie BULLYPROOF® classes on campus! The bottom line is: we will prepare your child to defend themselves against bullies without turning them into one.

If you’re interested in empowering your child with unshakable confidence while reinforcing positive values and good character, the Gracie BULLYPROOF® program is for you! Even if your child has previously tried Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu (BJJ) at other schools and had a negative experience, we can tell you from experience that our Gracie BULLYPROOF® program will be an entirely different experience!

Critical Confidence

Studies suggest that bullying may be the leading cause of low self-esteem in children, and according to some surveys, less than 15% of kids actually report acts of bullying. A child’s inability to stand up to a bully is rooted in profound fear for their personal safety. Ironically, the victims know that they must confront the bully and would like nothing more than to stand up to them. But, they simply can't follow through for fear of the physical harm that backs the bully's every action. And, therein lies the challenge – how do you instill in a victim of bullying, the confidence to face their tormentor, look them in the eye, and back them down? The answer is simple – first, teach the victims to defend themselves against physical attack, and the rest will follow. Watch Luis' story of how he overcame his bully situation, below.

Fighting Fire with Water

Most martial arts programs rely on striking the attacker with violent punches, kicks, knees, and elbows, but in the Gracie BULLYPROOF® program we take a different approach. All the techniques are purely defensive and utilize no strikes. Furthermore, we teach children how to defuse confrontations with words and never to initiate physical aggression. If attacked, we offer techniques to non-violently neutralize the threat and gain control until help arrives. In the Gracie BULLYPROOF® program, we teach the children how to fight fire with water so that you never have to worry about your child becoming a bully under our guidance.

The Gracie BULLYPROOF® program prepares your child using a three-pronged approach:

#1: Increased Awareness: 

Harassment comes in many forms. Sometimes, a victim doesn’t take a stand because they can’t differentiate between “joking” and “bullying.” We teach your child to differentiate between harmless play and harmful harassment so they know precisely when and how to act in each circumstance.

#2: Unshakable Confidence:

A confident child is a Bullyproof child. Bullies seek “easy targets” – those who will tolerate their abuse. We arm your child with the tools needed to overcome physical, verbal, and psychological harassment, so they are so confident in themselves that no bully will try to harass them.

#3: Total Responsibility:

We prepare your child to deal with bullies without turning them into one. We emphasize discipline, responsibility, and respect throughout the course, and teach five “Rules of Engagement” to ensure they never abuse their power.

The Rules of Engagement

Teaching a child jiu-jitsu without teaching them when to use it, is akin to giving someone a gun without teaching them how to use it. Gracie BULLYPROOF® is the only kid’s jiu-jitsu program that actually teaches children precisely when they should, and should not, use the techniques they are learning. The five "Rules of Engagement" are regularly rehearsed in class so that children will never abuse their power and, equally important, they will not hesitate to take a stand when abused by bullies.

Rule 1: Avoid the fight at all costs.
Rule 2: If physically attacked, defend yourself.
Rule 3: If verbally attacked, follow the Three T-steps (talk, tell, tackle).
Rule 4: Never punch or kick the bully, establish control and negotiate.
Rule 5: When applying submissions use minimal force and negotiate.

Although we discuss the Rules of Engagement in Gracie BULLYPROOF® classes, we strongly encourage you to discuss the Rules at home to assure your child that they have your support in the event that they need to take a stand against bullying.

Verbal Jiu-Jitsu Training

One of the most common and most damaging forms of bullying is verbal harassment. Gracie BULLYPROOF® is the only kids' jiu-jitsu program that makes Verbal Assertiveness Training, or as we like to call it "Verbal Jiu-Jitsu," part of its regular curriculum. We've devised a series of role-playing exercises to teach kids how to identify and manage the common threats associated with verbal harassment and relational bullying. Gracie BULLYPROOF® students learn how to differentiate between "bullying" and "joking," and not only are kids taught how to speak assertively when necessary, but they also learn how to use direct eye contact and confident posture to deter bullies from targeting them.

Perfect Programs for Every Age

The Gracie BULLYPROOF® program is one of the only youth jiu-jitsu programs that separates kids by age AND experience level, so that every child gets the perfect balance of fun and challenge in their weekly classes. All kids begin in super-playful entry level programs for their age group, and as soon as a child reaches a certain level of maturity, they are promoted to the next training program.

Little Champs (5-7 Years Old)

The Little Champs program is for kids 5-7 years old. Using our time-tested “Gracie Games,” we teach the Little Champs basic self-defense techniques while instilling the foundational principles of leverage and control. The secret to the success of this program is that we make the lessons so fun that the kids beg for more! Once a child masters the ten core Gracie Games, they advance to the Jr. Grapplers program.

Jr. Grapplers (8-12 Years Old)

In the Jr. Grapplers program, we focus on 33 non-violent self-defense techniques that teach children to “neutralize and negotiate” with the bullies. Verbal assertiveness strategies are a major portion of this curriculum. A child needs absolutely no experience to start, and we guarantee a noticeable increase in your child’s confidence within weeks!

Black Belt Club (Invitation Only)

We invite children who excel in the Jr. Grapplers program to join the Black Belt Club. This is our most advanced youth jiu-jitsu program and joining the Black Belt Club is the highest honor for any youth Gracie Jiu-Jitsu practitioner. Kids in this program possess all the traits necessary for success on the path to black belt: discipline, respect, courage, leadership, loyalty, and compassion.

Free Online Access & Free Satellite Training

10 Day Free Trial - BullyProof

Upon enrolling your child in the Gracie BULLYPROOF® program, you will also be enrolled in Gracie BULLYPROOF® Online. Through this interactive online curriculum, you’ll have access to detailed video instruction on every technique in the course enabling you and your child to review techniques, or learn new techniques, from home! Furthermore, if you ever take a family vacation to a destination that has a Gracie BULLYPROOF® Certified Training Center, your child can participate in classes free of charge for up to 30 consecutive days!

10-Day Free Trial!

Most Martial Art schools limit new students to one free trial class. We offer all children a 10-day free trial that includes unlimited access to all of our Gracie BULLYPROOF® classes for a full 10 days!. We’re confident that the curriculum, the camaraderie, and quality of the instruction will exceed all your expectations. If your child doesn’t have the time of their life, just let us know, and we will never charge you for the classes your child took.

 

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